A Guide on Navigating the Ambiguous Nature of Wedding Dress Codes
We are officially in the throes of summer wedding season. Save the dates are taking up space on refrigerators, and the question of “what to wear” to them is taking up space in our minds. Wedding dress codes can often feel unnecessarily complicated (what exactly is “optional” about black tie optional???), so we’re here to help decipher some of the most common ones you’ll see on invitations this season.
July 6, 2023
Black Tie
Black Tie is probably the most formal dress code you’ll encounter on a wedding invite (White Tie is technically more formal, but a rarity unless you frequent state dinners and royal balls). Black Tie events are typically in the evening, and have a level of elegance to them that really makes you feel like getting dressed up. For this dress code, think about glamor and floor-length garments. That can mean a floor-length gown, or a two-piece pantsuit—something that covers your ankles—and in a luxurious fabric that just feels fancy. Since these events tend to have a certain level of sophistication, we’d recommend a nice pair of heels and accessories that aren’t overly loud, but still feel chic.
Black Tie Optional
Personally, Black Tie Optional has always been our least-favorite dress code to dress for. You technically can’t go wrong, but you can end up feeling over or underdressed depending on how the other guests decide to show out (although that is just a frame of mind, and there’s really no wrong answer!). Factors like time of day, time of year, and the couple getting married might affect how you choose to interpret this dress code. A floor length gown, jumpsuit, or pantsuit is totally acceptable here, as is something a little shorter (although we don’t recommend above midi length). These events tend to be slightly more laid-back then full out Black Tie, so feel free to add in some fun statement accessories to liven it up a bit.
Cocktail
Cocktail dress codes usually allow for a bit more individuality and playfulness. It’s still formal, but not too stuffy where you can’t have fun with it. For this, we’d opt for a dress that is anywhere from above the knee length to just above the ankle—floor length will feel too fancy. A matching set would also be a good option, or a nice pair of nice trousers with a jacket. Interesting fabrics and colors are encouraged, as is fun jewelry and footwear.
Casual
If you receive an invite with a Casual dress code, don’t take that as an invitation to show up in jeans and a tee shirt. These weddings will be more relaxed and laid-back, so you can opt for something like a sundress (in the warmer months), or a nice knit dress (in the colder months). A skirt or pair of trousers with a nice blouse will also work, as will matching separates or a jumpsuit. The fabrics for these pieces don’t need to be as premium as they would for a Cocktail type event, and you can use accessories like jewelry and shoes to dress up more casual items that you probably already have in your closet.
Beach Or Tropical
If you’re going to a wedding on the beach or in a tropical location (jealous), that probably means you’re going to be somewhere where it’s quite warm. Fabrics and patterns are probably most important here. Go for something that gives off a beachy and summery vibe—bright colors, flowing silhouettes, breathable fabrics. Instead of high heels, try wedges or an elevated sandal to avoid sinking into the sand. You can also have fun playing with accessories that tie to the beachy vibe.
To wrap it up…
These are some guidelines to help you pick your outfits this wedding season, but at the end of the day, when you feel your best you look your best. Use these tips as a base for figuring out your own personal style and pick items that you feel best in. If you have any questions about what to wear to an upcoming event, feel free to message our stylists through the Baro app at @BaroStylist!